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Two of the comments on my last post made me realize I missphrased something in that post.

The blogs I am not going to read anymore are the ones where I don't know the author. If I know you, if we have had face-to-face conversations in real life, then I have a context to flesh out the details you post on your blog. Or, if your blog makes me happy and I feel like if you were my real-life neighbour, we could be friends, then I want to read your blog (I am thinking of Auntie Leila and Uncommon Grace when I say this. They both, in very different ways, are blogs I am drawn to. They inspire me and encourage me in lots of ways.)

I really do like looking at the super-crafty mommy bloggers, it's a weird escapism for me (and I occasionally delude myself into thinking I will get around to doing these things). Yet I have a huge problem with comparing myself to others, and pretty much always make myself come out on the bottom, which makes me feel despondent at times. So if I can cut out just a little despondency-causing blogs, doesn't that seem worth it?

I don't want my friends to feel like they shouldn't post about their craft projects or interesting recipes or any other homemaking/crafty success. I like reading these things! And, more importantly, I just like hearing about you and your families.

So don't stop writing about these things. I will keep reading and enjoying it all.

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